Scripture Readings for February 12, 2026
1 Kings 11:4-13, Psalm 106: 3-4, 35-37, 40, Mark 7: 24-30
When you first read the Kings verses for today it can sound like what you expect of God and a disobedient Solomon. God is going to punish Solomon for not wholeheartedly following God’s rules. This is exactly how Jesus reacts in Mark’s Gospel when a Syro-Phoenician woman asks him to drive a devil out of her daughter. She’s not an Israelite therefore not his concern. Jesus is following the rules of his day. God is acting, well like you’d expect God to act when God’s rules aren’t obeyed.
However, on second thought, I began to think something else is going on here. Scripture scholars like to talk about how Mark uses this story to demonstrate the woman’s acceptance that the Jew’s are the children of God and that there is also room for non-Jews in God’s mercy. What is clear is this woman knows that Jesus can save her child. She won’t accept his easy dismissal. She persists by accepting the degrading dog epithet with which Jesus has labeled her and uses that image to appeal for Jesus’ mercy. She accepts her powerless position, she recognizes the reality of her situation and repeats her request for help. Jesus now sees her for who she is, not a person of another nationality, but a mother fighting for her child and that is a relationship he can understand. This story is about making a new connection, a new relationship between two people that changes things for both of them.
Interestingly, the story of Solomon’s bad behavior in Kings is also about a relationship. In this case, a relationship that is long standing one between Solomon’s father David and his God. Solomon has acquiesced to his many foreign wives and built temples to their gods and allowed his people to be led astray as a result. Therefore, God’s going to punish him. OK, that’s to be expected. Break the rules and you get punished. However, listen to what this God says as God is meting out his “wrath.”
I will deprive you of the kingdom and give it to your servant.
I will not do this during your lifetime, however,
for the sake of your father David;
it is your son whom I will deprive.
Nor will I take away the whole kingdom.
I will leave your son one tribe for the sake of my servant David
and of Jerusalem, which I have chosen.”
God’s not going to take away the kingdom during Solomon’s lifetime and even then his son will get to keep one tribe. Why, because of the relationship God had with David and God’s choice of the Jewish people. Does this sound like a God who is all about enforcing rules? Isn’t it more like a father who is hurt by his children’s behavior and can’t bring himself to be too harsh because he loves them even though they screw up regularly.
These two stories are about how a personal connection, a relationship between people, between a person and God changes us. Salvation isn’t about keeping all the rules it’s about having honest relationships that result in a better world. God’s not actually a judge out to fix us but rather a loving provider trying to give us a better way forward. Let’s try to be open to that.